As I’ve said before, if you are a teacher you need a sense of humor. The minute someone farts, burps or makes some other weird noise, you lose all control of the classroom for a few minutes. The giggling and laughing overtake the room. The sarcastic comments from the kids flood the class with a host of accusations about who farted, burped or otherwise. When my stiletto makes a squeak on the floor I too find it necessary to say, “That was my shoe, not me”.
I started writing about this topic when my period 10 class was amidst presentations. The room was quiet, someone walked up to present and yes, someone farted. Though the offender was never confirmed we all had our ideas. Although I am against farting in class, you have to feel for a kid who accidentally slips one out. Who would want to admit that in school? Your friends don’t care but among a host of mixed company you will be socially destroyed.
My friend (who shall be nameless) used to fart in the car, lock the windows and put the heat on full blast. This wasn’t fitting behavior for 17 & 18-year-old young women – but when alone we did act pretty gross. The same friend passed gas in my face during a Twister grudge match in her living room. I did not falter but my nose did. Despite her flatulence, she is still my friend today.
We grow up (at least I did) thinking farting was the funniest thing ever. Our fathers farted and made jokes about. My Poppy was an equal offender. And almost every guy I dated (for a significant period of time – including my spouse) was a Lothario of Farts who thought they seduced women with their perfume. At a really young age I may have found it funny but at this point in my life I’m just grossed out.
I mean, I couldn’t say the word “fart” in mixed company until I started teaching. I always said “passed gas” because it was more elegant – I’m not sure how that can be elegant but maybe I’m looking for the words proper or correct. I was baptized into my first year teaching by a student and his farts. I had a class of 10th or 11th grade boys with one poor girl thrown in. I couldn’t take the gas so I made the guilty student go outside, shake it out a bit and come back in EVERY SINGLE time. And he did. The best was when someone walked into it after he left the hallway. I couldn’t help but crack up by the look on the poor kid’s face who walked into that horror show of an odor. Yes, I found it funny as well.
Kids will be kids – but I can’t say that without saying – old people with be old people. Today I was walking around Target when I ducked into the magazine aisle to find a lo-cal recipe for tonight’s dinner. As soon as I grabbed a magazine an old lady loudly farted and looked around to see if anyone had heard her indiscretion. I avoided eye contact and quickly threw the magazine back in the rack and got out of there quickly. Ew. I was thoroughly grossed out then I remembered that I knew people who did that too. They would offend and walk away and leave it lingering for all to walk through. I don’t think I ever did that. Maybe once in an emergency but never on purpose.
Everyone passes gas, burps, poops and pees but we all pretend that we don’t. Some middle school boys may have a rude awakening in the future when they discover that girls actually do all these things too. We blame it on the cat or dog or someone else. Whoever smelt it dealt it. Whoever denied it supplied it. Are there any new ones?
Girls, boys, men women, dogs, cats. Why are these noises so funny? Is it innate, learned, spontaneous or just plain old bad manners?